This post is written in response to Linda Hill’s Stream of Consciousness Saturday (SoCS) prompt
Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is: “an-” Use it as a word or find a word that starts with the letters “an” and make it your post’s theme. Have fun! Everyone’s welcome. Join in if you like! Just let your mind go there…
Angels
When I was a child, I went to St Joseph’s Primary School, a convent school where I was taught among other things to believe in angels; invisible spirits sent by God on a mission to accompany me and help me make difficult decisions, especially regarding good and evil.
As a child, evil was never anywhere near my mind, and I never actually felt I needed an angel for that purpose, although I would have appreciated someone to talk to, like an older sister, or a sympathetic adult, but that didn’t happen, so I’m repairing that situation now, with my time-travelling angel.
I’ve become my own angel. I’m the sympathetic adult who listens to the confused child and tells her what a wonderful life is waiting for her. I’m helping the little girl I was, become the self-confident and happy adult I am.
How do I heal the insecure, shy, and scared child I once was? How can you do it?
Easy. Here’s my method.
It all started with an old school picture, which I placed in a frame on my landing some years ago. I’m about seven or eight years old. Every time I saw myself, I smiled and said, sometimes out loud and sometimes in my mind, something positive. ‘You look great!’, ‘Lovely smile!’, ‘Clever girl’, etc… and I realised it made me feel good.
It grew from there.
Later, with or without the picture prompt, I remember events, which happened, sometimes just a normal, boring, or sad day, and I mentally chat to the little girl, reminding her that she’s preparing herself for the future, and that wonderful experiences and events await her.
I tell her about something that has happened or is happening years later, like: ‘You’ll publish your novel in the end,’ or ‘you’ll travel to such a place or meet such a person…’
I also advise her about how she should behave, like, ‘read as much as you can,’ or ‘don’t waste time with people you don’t like,’ or ‘look after yourself’ etc.
I also listen to how she feels. I have a sort of interior dialogue and I help her think things through. I feel much better after our ‘conversations’.
I’m sure it works, because I feel happier in my skin the older I get.
Who’s your angel?
Personally I still believe in angels. Positive self talk I good but I also feel there is more to life than we can account for in our rational world view. I wrote about something similar this week – whether they are angels or not I cannot say http://artifactsandfictions.com/2016/01/30/the-shining-ones/
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Thank you.💗 I’ll check out your link. I’m also sure there’s more to life than we can account for. Thank you fir dropping by 🙂
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Sorry – I meant to write – positive self talk is good not I good
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Happens all the time with touch screens and speed writing!
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Sure does 😦
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I was also taught about angels when I was little – taught by the nun of the Sacred Heart. It was and still can be comforting to know you have one looking out for you! I have had plenty of human angels, for which I am so grateful. My daughter is one – she believes unconditionally in me and is my biggest booster!
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I’m also lucky enough to have many angels💗 My daughter is also my loveliest angel. Aren’t we lucky? By the way, you’re one of my virtual angels 💝😍
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Back at you! We are lucky!
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I am crying. You made me cry. This is… How sweet and what a lovely, beautiful thing to do. ❤️
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Thank you for letting me know, but I’m so sorry I made you cry 💖
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Sounds like a good technique, cute photo.
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Thank you for dropping by and commenting 💖
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Years ago, I read about a meditation technique of going back to comfort the wounded child, and I’ve used this to also comfort my former self through adult challenges. Your method of putting up a picture that you say positive things to makes this even more powerful. I’ve also wondered what my future self wants to say to me….or is telling me!
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I suppose it could work both ways, I mean speaking to our future self. It may be hard getting old and a comforting message would no doubt be welcome…
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Good idea!
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