This post was written in response to Linda Hill’s weekly Stream of Consciousness Saturday prompt.
This week’s prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday Linda has asked us to use a word starting with the letters “cal” as our prompt word. Join in and have fun!
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Stay Calm
Calm is a word which has become one of my favourites. Every day is full of tiny problems which give could lead to disaster if I don’t find a solution. A broken washing machine, losing my car keys, forgetting my best friend’s birthday, a toothache, a traffic jam which makes me late to an important appointment, a bad hair day…
On any day, so many little things can go wrong and cause havoc, but if I react by losing my nerves, which I sometimes do, it only makes matters worse. On the other hand, I can usually find simple solutions to most small, daily problems if I react calmly.
Machines can be repaired, if it’s urgent I can access a dry cleaners or laundromats, hairdresser’s, dentists, or an Uber. If I calm down, I can find most misplaced objects (once I put the keys in the freezer and found them retracing my steps!). A heartfelt apology or an honest excuse will often work wonders when I’ve made a mistake. Responding to a rude client (in my case student) with more rudeness or anger will only increase the problem, calm them down or ask them to leave. But if I’m worked up, the solution to even the simplest problem becomes impossible.
So how do I calm down when I’m feeling hysterical? The following simple activities take between 2 and 10 minutes and I find they usually help me relax.
1- Controlling my breathing does wonders, I love the breathing technique recommended by Dr Chatterjee; three in, hold for four and breathe out in five, then repeat until I feel calmer.
2- If I can, I find a quiet spot and close my eyes, and breathe slowly and visualise the problem and think of a solution.
3- I’m a great believer in the power of writing lists, so just sitting down for a few minutes and writing a list of possible solutions, also helps.
4- Asking for help. If I can’t solve it myself, I think about who I could phone and ask for help.
How do you keep calm?
Rereading Jane Eyre 
I find calm in expressing gratitude and physical activities, such as biking or yoga, and it’s also present when I am outside, enjoying nature. Sometimes I have to search for calm and other times it simply comes to me.
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I agree, being around nature is a great way to recover our calm. Gratitude and physical activities also help us maintain our balance.
In this post, I was thinking of ‘quick fixes’ when we’re suddenly thrust into a stressful situation and we can’t just get up and go for a walk, unfortunately.
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Calm is something I need more of in my life. The breathing always works for me.
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Breathing is my go to resource for a quick calm fix, too! And the best thing is it works:)
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I do yoga every morning and it helps me to be calm. My husband is a calm and quiet person, and being with him helps 😊
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I’ve never done yoga, but it sounds great for calmness. I do some stretching, movement and breathing for about 10 minutes every morning.
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